As children get older, one of the important ongoing conversations that parents have with them is alcohol related.
Research by the Drinkaware charity shows that 62% of 13 to 17 year olds would turn to their parents or guardians if they wanted more information about alcohol. And they are important to know the subject, although it is legal for children over 5 years old to have alcohol at home or on other private buildings, the NHS advises children and young people to Do not drink alcohol before the age of 18, warning of health risks if they drink younger.
The NHS states: "Starting to drink before the age of 14 is associated with more health risks, including alcohol-related injuries, taking part in violence, thoughts and suicide attempts."
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Some parents believe their teenage children to drink a bit in their homes make them more responsible for long-term drinkers, and the recent study of the University of London University and the University of Pennsylvania finds that one of all six parents in the UK have allowed children to drink alcohol by age 14.
But Professor Jennifer Maggs, who led to the study, said: "Parents may believe that allowing children to drink their learning will use them responsibly, or they may encourage them against dangerous drinking. However, there is little research & support to these ideas. "
Dr John Larsen of Drinkaware says that many studies have shown that parents have a significant influence over the attitude and relationship that their child develops with alcohol. "Although every parent or carer can choose to talk to teenagers about alcohol in different ways, it's helpful to have clear rules and that conversations are open and honest," he said.
The charity has the following advice to parents when it comes to chatting with their children about drinking …
1. Get the right right
Make a talk, not a lecture.
2. Get timing properly
Do not wait until they go out to meet friends.
3. Find a hook
To start the conversation, find a little girl like a recent movie or television story if you can.
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4. Be honest
It's much better to admit what you did in their age than to make it worse than white (unless you, of course).
5. Set rules
Teenagers feel more secure if there are guidelines and boundaries.
6. Set a good example
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Remember, children do not do as you say, they do as you do. If you want to prevent your children from underage drinking, the first thing you can do is look at your own drinking and possibly make changes before you talk to them.
7. Help them to say "#;
Drinkaware's research has found 65% of children who drink alcohol at least some time, make it fit, like, or to avoid being left. So make sure your child understands saying that it is not & # 39; To alcohol means they refuse a friend or be bored or chaotic, they're looking after themselves.
Take them to talk to you, and practice how to turn things down. It will also help them if you sometimes show this behavior in social situations by refusing alcoholic drinks when offered.– Press Society